Jul
10

Question for the christians, what is ur opinion on two people that really care about each other,having sex?
although not married…is it really that bad? i really care about my boyfriend and vice versa, right now i am 23 and although i live on my own, im not ready to have my household w/sum1 else, i really care about my boyfriend and we believe that we are definitely the perfect match 4 each other, and that our relationship will lead to marriage, just dont feel the rush…opinions please!!
marriage is a change of lifestyle all together, sex is a form of expression of how u feel towards the other partner,i think it is very possible to not be ready for a change of lifestyle, but be ready to physically express wat u feel for someone dont u think?
and is there really a difference, if u know u will eventually marry this person?

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  • Comment by MeMe
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    I am a Christian too. If you are truly devoted to Christ, you should stick with what the Bible says and do not have sex before marriage. I know it is difficult…. VERY difficult. My husband and I didn’t have intercourse before marriage but did give in to "other temptations" and regreted that. God created sex to be between husband and wife, and it is truly a beautiful experience to share with your spouse. Stay strong in Christ and wait until you are married, my sister! God bless!

  • Comment by Annie Oakley
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    The Bible says that sex outside the bonds of marriage is wrong. If you two are so much in love and really believe that you’re the perfect match for each other, then get married. If there’s no rush to get married, there should be no rush to have sex. It’s your choice to either live the way God wants you to live, or live the way your crotch wants you to live.

  • Comment by CALLME
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Let me give you my opinion every religion has interrupted things there way if you look in the Bible you would;d be hard press to find where it says you can’t do this, or you shouldn’t do that. Also keep in mind and a open mind that its a book and it was written by MAN so there is a lot to be concerned about. So I would say don’t worry much about what Christians say if you are really concern find out for yourself would will probably be surprised man has made up more rules about what’s wrong then the Bible.

  • Comment by lilly l
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    So ….you want to be together but not live together …It can be done . Eventually the reality is if you r having sex you will be sleeping over each others house alot. Don’t rush your thing you 2 have .You know its there so go with it .God knows whats in your hearts.. Living together can make you or break you but you will see each others faults no matter what if you spend lengthy quality time together over time.Learn how to pray together . It will help.

  • Comment by sweet p
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    to truely care about each other shouldnt mean that you worship each other-put the other ahead of God, honor and marriage. If he can get the sacred right of marriage with no commitment other than loose words no matter how many times he tells you I love you and we will get married some day,
    it seems to me you already made up your mind about this as you are trying to justify yourself, yet there is help from above "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13
    may you look above for some help in this=
    have a nice week with a miracle to happen=

    Father, I ask You to bless this person, who is reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask You to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through your grace. Where there is need, I ask you to fulfill their needs. Bless their homes, families, finances, their goings and their comings. In Jesus ‘ precious name. Amen. John 3 repented of my sins (even one lie) "Jesus im sorry for my sins and come into my heart to help me and be my friend, amen. Revelation 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to turn from sin to me, Behold i stand at your heart door and knock, if you ask me in, I will and be your friend."

    best wishes to you

    may you get some help from above, and you have my prayers too

  • Comment by az_mommma
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Thing is is that until you ARE married you don’t know if it will happen or not. Stuff happens in life and two people saying it will happen doesn’t guarantee it ever will.

    Fact is that as a christian it is wrong to have sex before you are married. Sex is something that is wonderful and should be shared with your spouse after they have commited their life to you. By waiting it gives you something to look forward to on your wedding night, something new you will have to share.

    Not to mention all the things that could go wrong, like, what if you get pregnant? No birth control is 100% and if it doesn’t work.. then you are just another single mom with a kid and no father.

    And please don’t say it won’t be that way because quite frankly hon, without a ring and a committment you ain’t got nothing.

  • Comment by duaneb_59
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Sorry, not a christian. But there is nothing wrong with sex as long as it is between two consenting adults. Anyone who tells you differently has their own drums to beat. Check out Hebrews Chapter 13………

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Jul
10

although not married…is it really that bad? i really care about my boyfriend and vice versa, right now i am 23 and although i live on my own, im not ready to have my household w/sum1 else, i really care about my boyfriend and we believe that we are definitely the perfect match 4 each other, and that our relationship will lead to marriage, just dont feel the rush…opinions please!!
marriage is a change of lifestyle all together, sex is a form of expression of how u feel towards the other partner,i think it is very possible to not be ready for a change of lifestyle, but be ready to physically express wat u feel for someone dont u think?
and is there really a difference, if u know u will eventually marry this person?

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  • Comment by Eric S
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Sex before marriage is wrong,no matter how much they cae about each other. If they truly care about each other they will wait for that commitment.

  • Comment by crazyrunnergrl
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    im christian! and im 14! and I say go for it! ~ let loose, get wild, lifes too short to be shy!

  • Comment by guitarisgoodm6
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Sexual purity is a biblical topic. The bible states to remain sexually pure until married. However, that doesn’t seem affect much of society. It all depends on your view of Christianity and whether or not you’re willing to make the decision to remain sexually pure.

  • Comment by Phil S
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    When in doubt…WAIT!

    If you want to be very strict on your beliefs, then even bringing up a "household" before marriage is against most Christian Churches belief systems…not supposed to live together before marriage.

    It really depends on how strictly you and your boyfriend want to adhere to the teachings of the Church/Bible…you do know that in the Bible it is written that no man shall share a bed with a woman who is menstruating…and that no man shall ever sit in a place where a woman who was menstruating has sat…

    Will you burn in Hell if you do have sex? I don’t believe so…and always remember that the Bible and the teachings of the Church are interpretations of what is believed to be God’s word – which has been translated to death at this point!

    By the way, I do consider myself to be a good Christian…just not a blind one.

  • Comment by spunkymom
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Your not rushing into marriage, but your rushing into sex. Yeah, that makes alot of sense. Hmmmm

    If your a christian, you would be concerned with what the Lord says about that.

  • Comment by Hollister_Hottie
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    I still think it is wrong. Wait until u both decide you ARE ready for marriage.

  • Comment by jason a
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    I would say wait, but its up to you. I am a christian and i didnt wait. I have alot of christian friends who didnt wait either. I did it with someone i love very much, it wasnnt meaningless sex, but i would say wait. Lord says sex should be saved for the marriage bed and thats what you should do. I believe that waiting is the best way because if it wasnt God wouldnt have said to wait.

  • Comment by G Money
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Non christians don’t have opinions anymore???

    Heres one…no matter what you do you will still die someday!

  • Comment by J
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    The thing is that sex is like a joy you’re supposed to experience when you know you’ll be together forever (i.e. marriage/engagement and not that "I know we’ll be together forever because we’ve been going out for 2 weeks" excuse.) It’s like something to look forward to when your married so you give each other your all. Remember that God invented sex and intended for two lovers to become one after they’re married. It’s kind of like a unity thing and it may just keep you and your partner together longer. There’s not much to say after that.

  • Comment by anwar.tirta
    July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am

    WOW, YOU BOTH should GET MARRIED. So you don’t feel guilty. Of course it is a sin, but if you have married, then this is called LOVE. Don’t say you love him and have sex with him, before you get married, it is not love but only desire. Pls consider it. OK, about marriage, there is no PERFECT TIME to a maariage. JUST DO IT. GOD will give you a WAY. TRUST in HIM

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