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Question for the christians, what is ur opinion on two people that really care about each other,having sex?
although not married…is it really that bad? i really care about my boyfriend and vice versa, right now i am 23 and although i live on my own, im not ready to have my household w/sum1 else, i really care about my boyfriend and we believe that we are definitely the perfect match 4 each other, and that our relationship will lead to marriage, just dont feel the rush…opinions please!!
marriage is a change of lifestyle all together, sex is a form of expression of how u feel towards the other partner,i think it is very possible to not be ready for a change of lifestyle, but be ready to physically express wat u feel for someone dont u think?
and is there really a difference, if u know u will eventually marry this person?
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July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
I am a Christian too. If you are truly devoted to Christ, you should stick with what the Bible says and do not have sex before marriage. I know it is difficult…. VERY difficult. My husband and I didn’t have intercourse before marriage but did give in to "other temptations" and regreted that. God created sex to be between husband and wife, and it is truly a beautiful experience to share with your spouse. Stay strong in Christ and wait until you are married, my sister! God bless!
July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
The Bible says that sex outside the bonds of marriage is wrong. If you two are so much in love and really believe that you’re the perfect match for each other, then get married. If there’s no rush to get married, there should be no rush to have sex. It’s your choice to either live the way God wants you to live, or live the way your crotch wants you to live.
July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
Let me give you my opinion every religion has interrupted things there way if you look in the Bible you would;d be hard press to find where it says you can’t do this, or you shouldn’t do that. Also keep in mind and a open mind that its a book and it was written by MAN so there is a lot to be concerned about. So I would say don’t worry much about what Christians say if you are really concern find out for yourself would will probably be surprised man has made up more rules about what’s wrong then the Bible.
July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
So ….you want to be together but not live together …It can be done . Eventually the reality is if you r having sex you will be sleeping over each others house alot. Don’t rush your thing you 2 have .You know its there so go with it .God knows whats in your hearts.. Living together can make you or break you but you will see each others faults no matter what if you spend lengthy quality time together over time.Learn how to pray together . It will help.
July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
to truely care about each other shouldnt mean that you worship each other-put the other ahead of God, honor and marriage. If he can get the sacred right of marriage with no commitment other than loose words no matter how many times he tells you I love you and we will get married some day,
it seems to me you already made up your mind about this as you are trying to justify yourself, yet there is help from above "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13
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best wishes to you
may you get some help from above, and you have my prayers too
July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
Thing is is that until you ARE married you don’t know if it will happen or not. Stuff happens in life and two people saying it will happen doesn’t guarantee it ever will.
Fact is that as a christian it is wrong to have sex before you are married. Sex is something that is wonderful and should be shared with your spouse after they have commited their life to you. By waiting it gives you something to look forward to on your wedding night, something new you will have to share.
Not to mention all the things that could go wrong, like, what if you get pregnant? No birth control is 100% and if it doesn’t work.. then you are just another single mom with a kid and no father.
And please don’t say it won’t be that way because quite frankly hon, without a ring and a committment you ain’t got nothing.
July 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
Sorry, not a christian. But there is nothing wrong with sex as long as it is between two consenting adults. Anyone who tells you differently has their own drums to beat. Check out Hebrews Chapter 13………